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Friday, June 26, 2009


Ever wondered how different life would have been,had we been different from our present selves?

Had we been bereft of any of the essentials that complete us as an entity?

Do you think life would have been unrelated or you wouldn't have just cared to bother?

In case you haven't ever given it a thought, spend some quality time pondering over it. Trust me, you wouldn't regret channelizing your time and energy meditating over this sensitive issue!

Though, be prepared to be jolted out of your romantic dispositions in the very first brush with reality!

We all love ourselves. Don't we?

We look-up to ourselves in some way or the other. No matter how often or rare we acknowledge this fact, but somewhere deep inside our hearts, we really admire ourselves for a zillions things unsaid and unheard!

No matter how rough life gets for us, yet given a chance to change places with someone else, we wouldn't really appreciate the idea. We would rather choose to enjoy a tumultuous roller-coaster ride of life's ups and downs that would come our way, than putting ourselves in someone else's shoes! Wouldn't we?

Then why don't we apply the same principles in our behaviour while dealing with an immensely sensitive strata of our society, People with Disability?

It was a recent session on Disability conducted at my workplace by our very own, Norliana that moved me to silent tears of disgust and humiliation and urged me to come up with this post.

Despite bold claims on the part of humanity of according a fair and just treatment to all the classes in the society, a predominant streak of bias and inequality runs through its length and breadth. Lets accept it outright, that these towering claims fall short of seeing the light of the day in ways more than one!

We are yet to accept and embrace the crude reality! We are yet to embrace the so-called People with Disability with open arms and welcoming hearts. Whether we confess it or not, somewhere down the lane, knowingly or unknowingly we tend to look down upon them with elements of pity and sympathy! Don't we..?

Out of pity, we tend to offend our disabled fellow beings with uncalled-for aid and assistance. We often push ourselves to such an extent that we almost invade their privacy and in turn end up making them feel incapacitated or incomplete..

(to be continued..)


11 comments:

sonali said...

so many questions left me just speechless and thinking, what a post, all i am waiting for is to read the conclution :)

Pallav said...

there r certain things, which wandering me. anyways i ll be looking for the other part..
hey hey
thr is something for u in my post
do check

:)
Cheers
Pallav

Unknown said...

I will wait for the concluding part before I chip in with my comments..
good questions there though
Keep going

Cheers,
Sharad
Medley

Sneha Shrivastava said...

Hmmmm introspection.:)

I just love spending time in your blog.:) My sincere confession.:)

keep writing.
waiting for the next post.

Americanising Desi said...

that was an eye opener post!

Mohita Saxena said...

@Sonali

I am glad that my post helped you getting into some bit of retrospection!

Trust me, 'Retrospection' was the sole motive behind this write-up.

I'll be coming up with the next part pretty soon!

Mohita Saxena said...

@Pallav

Thanks! I'll be posting the next part sometime soon!

Nd thanks for the string of awards!
As I said,
you made my day!

Mohita Saxena said...

@Sharad

Alright! I'm at the waiting end!

Mohita Saxena said...

@Sneha

Awww!
Honestly speaking,feels great to know that!

Thankiee:)

Mohita Saxena said...

@AD

Glad to know that!
Guess,my intention of writing the post is fulfilled since it gave you all, some food for thought!

हितेंद्र टोलिया said...

i hear you ... i do ... but you write this post in such an absolute language ... generalising all those who want to "geniunely help" our disabled friends. Its always pride which is on stake ... i'm not taking any sides ... but its a fact that our disabled friends also tend to get allergic to the words "help and concern" ... i know every one has ego ... and respecting everyone's privacy ... i think its everyone's duty to extend our help to those who need it ... its upto them if they accept or not ... life is not digital ... so theres no single answer to all its riddles ... i know that if i further say more on this topic ... i think i will be hated by all ... so i will stop here ... but think ... ciao